Family Planning is the basic thing that a new married couple should know or learn before even starting with a first child. As what my Spanish grandmother said, one must know first the metodos anticonceptivos or contraceptive methods in English.
Before I got married, my fiancé (now my husband) already talked about that stuff. We hired the service of a family expert for a consultation and after our wedding and I am sixteen weeks with our first child, we joined a family planning seminar for soon to be mommies and daddies that was conducted by the hospital which my doctor resides.
As of today, both of us are enjoying two cute little girls with a four year gap. My eldest is seven and the youngest is three. My husband and I are planning to add one more child maybe next year or next, next year. And we wanted it to be a boy for our third child. I don’t know why but my husband has been fussing me about having a baby boy. He said that he wants to see a “mini him” because we already have two “mini me’s”. I know his idea is cute but we still have to consider things. Like adding up another room, changing the dining table and changing our vehicle. It’s still really a work-in-progress.